Jenifer (Zarknorph) said:

A victim of violence is a victim - regardless of the contempt you have for the word, or the very idea of it. And women don't choose to be victims.

Thank you Jen. I was a victim, and then learned some self defense moves. A few guys might still be regretting attempts. Was taught some nasty defense techniques. Not sure if that one guy ever got his voice back, after I crushed his throat with a hard punch, but ....

Is it wrong that I'm slightly aroused?

Funny, I'll have to tell you about ... well the time I had to twist a man's ear half off, don't get excited, not sure if he was bleeding when he said he was going to grab his knife.

Then their gonads are out loose, so an obvious target when using self defense.

OK, I had a dangerous youth, after being raised as a princess. Much to my parents' despair, found myself a bard who prevailed in protection, since I wasn't very good at keeping out of situations.