Please help. I want to remove a forum from the Related Forums drop down menu in my forum, but it says to click on it and when I do that, it takes me to that forum! I can't find a way to delete it. What am I missing here?

Are you looking in Controls, Forum Customization, Related Forums. See the forums showing there, click the one you want and press Delete. 

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Yes, followed all those steps; click the one I want but it takes me TO that forum with no delete option.  I disabled the Related Forums option though and now the list is gone so I guess that took care of it.