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From: Norrie (NORRIEJ)Feb-9 8:59 AM 
To: All  (1 of 14) 
 40313.1 

Is it OK for husbands and wives to watch pornography together?

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Is it OK for husbands and wives to watch pornography together? This is a question I get hundreds of times every week. The answer is NO. The reason is because pornography involves sexual fantasies with someone OTHER than your spouse. THAT is why it is a sin. This Devotional will spark the natural question, "What is acceptable between a husband and wife?"

God created sex. It is beautiful and perfect when enjoyed in the CONTEXT GOD CREATED IT. That context is a man and women, who are married! I have always held that whatever a husband and wife enjoy sexually is fine as long as it is done in private and they BOTH are open to it. No spouse should be forced to engage in sexual acts that they are not comfortable with. Also, the line is drawn when it gets into fantasies involving other people.

THAT is why pornography is not acceptable for a husband and wife, since by its VERY nature, pornography is fantasizing about other people. FIND YOUR FULFILLMENT IN EACH OTHER!

Pornography is a problem many men and women have battled for a long time. With the advent of the Internet, it has made accessibility to pornography incredibly easy and has now b
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From: Len (AryehLeib613)Feb-9 10:16 AM 
To: Norrie (NORRIEJ)  (2 of 14) 
 40313.2 in reply to 40313.1 

Yes!

The issue is whether pornography is fantasizing about other people. It certainly uses other people; anonymous people.

But the purpose is to improve relations between spouses  and the fantasizing is mainly about oneself and spouse; a turn on of excitement and desire.

The result is enhanced pleasurable marital relations and who can complain about this?

 

 
From: Ginger (TGANNON) DelphiPlus Member IconFeb-9 1:31 PM 
To: Len (AryehLeib613)  (3 of 14) 
 40313.3 in reply to 40313.2 

Yes!

The issue is whether pornography is fantasizing about other people. It certainly uses other people; anonymous people.

But the purpose is to improve relations between spouses  and the fantasizing is mainly about oneself and spouse; a turn on of excitement and desire.

The result is enhanced pleasurable marital relations and who can complain about this?

Ginger>You didn't watch the half time super bowl of J-Lo and Shakira but you would watch porn?  You just shocked me!  And I'll tell you why: no one should be in videos depicting porn for others to watch. 

 

 

 

     

Psalm119:105 "Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path"

 

 
From: Len (AryehLeib613)Feb-9 4:35 PM 
To: Ginger (TGANNON) DelphiPlus Member Icon  (4 of 14) 
 40313.4 in reply to 40313.3 

Ginger>You didn't watch the half time super bowl of J-Lo and Shakira but you would watch porn?

I don't know much about the half-time show. I didn't avoid it on purpose. I was just doing something else.

 >>You just shocked me!  And I'll tell you why: no one should be in videos depicting porn for others to watch. 

This is the best reason yet; one I hadn't thought of.

But there are medical sexual photos or videos designed to assist couples who need relationship assistance. Those in the graphics are likely professional models.

I would not watch porn if by this you mean profit-motivated videos by illicit producers

Sex for pleasure alone is kosher for a married couple so any proper thing that facilitates this is acceptable.

http://www.jewfaq.org/sex.htm

 

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From: Strings17Feb-9 4:45 PM 
To: Norrie (NORRIEJ)  (5 of 14) 
 40313.5 in reply to 40313.1 

No it is not ok,Pornography destroys people's lives andand souls.

Norrie (NORRIEJ) said...

God created sex.

Yes he did

Norrie (NORRIEJ) said...

It is beautiful and perfect

But won't be in heaven,the perfect environment.

 

 
From: Bob (Bobbylee7) DelphiPlus Member Icon Posted by hostFeb-11 11:22 AM 
To: Norrie (NORRIEJ)  (6 of 14) 
 40313.6 in reply to 40313.1 

What? Watching porn isn't acceptable period. 


 

 

 
From: Bob (Bobbylee7) DelphiPlus Member Icon Posted by hostFeb-11 11:23 AM 
To: Len (AryehLeib613)  (7 of 14) 
 40313.7 in reply to 40313.2 

Yes!

The issue is whether pornography is fantasizing about other people. It certainly uses other people; anonymous people.

But the purpose is to improve relations between spouses  and the fantasizing is mainly about oneself and spouse; a turn on of excitement and desire.

The result is enhanced pleasurable marital relations and who can complain about this?

bob>I knew of one couple who did this and they divorced about a year later. 


 

 

 
From: Bob (Bobbylee7) DelphiPlus Member Icon Posted by hostFeb-11 11:24 AM 
To: Ginger (TGANNON) DelphiPlus Member Icon  (8 of 14) 
 40313.8 in reply to 40313.3 

no one should be in videos depicting porn for others to watch. 

bob>I was young and I needed the money....LOL

 


 

 

 
From: Norrie (NORRIEJ)Feb-11 1:11 PM 
To: Bob (Bobbylee7) DelphiPlus Member Icon  (9 of 14) 
 40313.9 in reply to 40313.6 

Exactly!

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Stop, Drop, and Roll won't work in Hell.

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Why do black Democratic congresspersons seem so unhappy with record low black unemployment? Because it might mean unemployment for them. And their lives as political parasites will have been meaningless wastes.
 

 
From: Vector (GPL89034)Feb-16 11:43 AM 
To: Norrie (NORRIEJ)  (10 of 14) 
 40313.10 in reply to 40313.1 

Porn is not acceptable in any form. If you are not aroused by your spouse perhaps you chose wrong. Looking at porn is nor only degrading to women it is a sign of a emotionally weak man. It is also bring someone else via a fantasy into the marriage bed. It is sinful.

 

 
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