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Good to hear your daughter is well again, E, and that you're able to move around. We are still confined to our homes although we may have some more movement to hardware stories or shopping this coming month -- our rates of infection are still relatively low for such a vast country (86 deaths and 4 360 infected) -- but we are now facing all-night curfews from 8pm until 5am. About 200 Cuban medics arrive here to help prepare for a surge this winter.
Some food shortages, I'm busy cooking for hungry school children who usually rely on being given meals at school. The weather is colder and I have flu so feeling low and apathetic.
Yes, let's hope for a vaccine soon and a vaccine available to all.
Cooking for and feeding the children is so good of you Mary. I may be thousands of miles from where you are, but thank you. There has just been a discussion on the radio about the higher incidence and death rate here in poorer densely populated areas. From what I remember and know of South Africa I understand it is absolutely crucial to try to step on the virus before it takes hold for precisely that reason. A 13 year old boy from East London died a few weeks ago. They didn't say anything about his family's socio-economic status, it would I guess seem crass, but he had six siblings and it wasn't a posh bit of London. Poverty and overcrowding are factors people feel uncomfortable discussing.
Listened to a phone in today on Radio 4 about alcohol consumption during the lockdown. It's clearly a problem for some. Very very glad it is not a problem for me.
Hope everyone is doing well this week. Have a lovely weekend xx
The problem is that poorer people have a much harder time sheltering in place. Washington DC is divided into 8 wards. When the epidemic first started, the most cases were in Ward 6 - where I live - a predominately well off ward with many government and congressional staff, and many contractors. People who were out and about a lot. As the pandemic progressed, more and more cases developed in the poorer wards, where people cannot work from home, can't call in to Whole Foods for food deliveries, and can't afford to just stay home. I imagine that is the case in most urban areas.
That middle-class embarrassment or suppressed guilt is part of the problem. Out here the Covid-19 discussions are not ageist (a relief) because so many youngsters have tuberculosis or are HIV+ and their living conditions, food supply or access to clinics or treatment programmes plays a major role in whether they live or die. Addiction is a huge problem, as elsewhere, since we have meths labs and drug sales rampant in schools and campuses, gang violence is an ongoing problem, as is starvation.
What we do here is talk about treatment literacy -- and this is done is Venezuela, Brazil, India, Pakistan and certain countries (Vietnam) in Asia as well -- an educational approach to hep increase awareness of what is needed, what happens if you do get ill with Covid-19, how to get help. what to do to protect yourself and others, how to develop self-care in very harsh environments. Of course this should be happening in Britain and the United States too -- news interviews and social media posts reveal so clearly how many people (and not just from poor backgrounds) think it can't happen to them or don't understand how the contagion works or why a history of heavy smoking, drinking, drug use, obesity, chest ailments or HIV+ makes them especially vulnerable to dying from Covid-19.
And I must admit that the bans of alcohol and tobacco sales may be illiberal and problematic but the health and social benefits have been immediately evident. In emergency casualty, the biggest problem at night and over weekends or public holidays has been injuries and crises that are alcohol-related. Our major hospitals recorded an average of 9 000 fewer trauma admissions at weekends after the ban on alcohol. That is enormous and police holding cells and prisons claimed the same effect -- no drunken behaviour arrests, far fewer reports of domestic violence related to binge-drinking. Online recovery rehab networks and smoking cessation support groups are doing very well here although I've heard AA doesn't do well in face-to-face informal online Zoom counselling or when anonymity has to be dropped.
Of course many people are busy making toxic homebrews but the fact remains that nobody can buy alcohol or even purchase black market cigarettes because of the curfews and heavy fines. And everyone is noticing the difference.
Stay safe everyone!
Many of the craft distilleries and breweries here are making hand sanitizer, which has been in short supply because of hoarding. Alcohol sales are still allowed, but because bars and restaurants are closed, demand is down.
Yes, we have full production going with hand sanitisers from alcohol producers as well as masks. And trials of the long-term effects of BCG vaccines given to most people here as children. As well as trails on some herbal extraction that has apparently worked well in Madagascar, from a rare variety of Artemisia.
This week regulations have been relaxed to allow exercise so people are out walking, cycling and running at 6am in the frosty dawn.
Stay safe my friend
Checking in to say hi. The Uk has really stuffed up its handling of the pandemic- it becomes more and more obvious with every day that passes. The latest slight relaxation of the lockdown has caused a lot of confusion.
I'm feeling ok. We have been working on the garden and forwarding plans for the house build, which I'm feeling rather more positive about. It's the hottest day of the year here today and I was out earlyish to walk the dog. I am being furloughed from my little job now- no one knows when we will be able to do weddings again, and when we are it is likely that they will be very restricted in numbers so many people are likely to postpone if they want even a moderately sized event.
With permission given now to drive to another locale for exercise, I went to see my son for a socially distanced walk in his local park- Sheffield Botanical Gardens which are really gorgeous. It was all ok until I realised that I needed a wee! All public toilets are closed and you are not supposed to go in anyone else's house, but I had to, with great consternation at his typical student gaff with no soap in the loo...washed my hands as thoroughly as I could and ended up drying them on the dog when I got outside again. The need to stay local was illustrated perfectly by this incident, but I was so so happy just to say hi to him and none of us have come down with the lurgy (as yet) I'm certainly hoping that husband and daughter at least will have some immunity.
Hope all is as well as can be expected with you all, stay safe.
The uses of a dog! Good to hear you're doing so well, E, and that you get to see family on walks. We're still in strict lockdown here and as cases surge we may not see any easing of restrictions for a while.
I'm enjoying early morning walks, but feeling a bit claustrophobic as we reach Day 56, no chance to get out and drive anywhere, very basic groceries, a dry cold autumn and I'm over the flu but feel tired all the time. My energy for inventive recipes has flagged and the work I have on my desk is going well but slowly. I have lurid Covid-19 related dreams most nights about hospitals and funerals, but that's just the usual.
Take care everyone
We here is the US haven't done too well either, at least Boris hasn't suggested drinking bleach.
Things are opening up somewhat here. The infection rate has leveled off and is dropping in some places. But the virus will still be around and, as my wife and I are in our 70s, is not clear how much we will be going out - certainly not going to a restaurant any time soon except for take out.
I have been working in my garden, but it has been so cool and wet that I'm not sure I'm going to plant yet. At least in West Virginia, where my nearest neighbor is almost a 1/4 of a mile away, I can move around. Doing lots of chores that get put off when the weather is better.
I just read a book about the 1918 flu. I knew it was bad, but I didn't realize how bad. What was interesting is that after it passed people didn't talk about it much. Histories of WW 1 devote little attention to it and US history books don't cover it well. It's also interesting that I had 13 great aunts and uncles on my mothers side - all born in Louisiana in the late 1800s or early 1900s - and they all lived to be in their 70s - what a turbulent time of history to live through. Most of them never moved far from Louisiana, and most of the men were too young for WW 1 and two old for WW 2, but one was rescued from the Lusitania when it was sunk and one was a nurse at Pearl Harbor when it was attacked. Her husband was flown out the day before when he fell out of the back of a Jeep and broke his leg.
Hope everyone is bearing up well.
Gah! Just lost a long message to you! Is there a possibility that your 'flu' was actually Covid? It seems to present in different ways in different people. A protracted period of exhaustion after recovery does seem a very common facet of it though.
None of us will know for sure unless tested though. I'm considering getting an antibody test as I'm still puzzling over why I didn't get it.
Watched a programme on BBC2 last night- a Horizon episode about 80s/90s comedian Tony Slattery. It is terrible to see what alcohol has done to him. He was such a bright, talented and handsome chap back in the day- he is truly ravaged by addiction now. He was exploring the possibility of him being on the bipolar spectrum by visiting various psychiatrists. The frequent chorus it kept returning to was that you won't get anywhere with this whilst you are drinking. It was very sad but very interesting. Things he would obviously like to ascribe to bipolar mood swings were so clearly (to me) alcohol related. He had some underlying issues, that was clear, but he was so trapped in the haze of alcohol that therapy was going to be really difficult. Any therapy really needed to be addressed to tackling the addiction itself. He reminded me a bit of the friend I lost. I didn't feel hopeful for him.
Worth a watch if you can get BBC iPLayer.