Di I am tough as nails though. My mom is coming back with me to my house and my sister and niece are going to work on the house and fix things.

i know you are strong but you have reallybe dealt a tough hand!

My lag is constant but not the crashing. I also have to open my mail 2 or 3 times before I see gifts. There is something definitely wrong with the game. 

I'm glad things have calmed down too.  I think a long hot bath and something to drink might be in order though. 

Tiny, I know you're one strong cookie, but even tough cookies break.  Take care of yourself too.  Someone once gave me this saying and I've kept it close to me ever since:

You never know how strong you are...until being strong is the only choice you have.

I truly hope  your load grows lighter over time.

Im actually going very well personally. I have a nice place to live, my daughter is with me and I healthy.

Its my mom and sister that have had it rough. But things are getting sorted have cleaned her house but I brought my mom back here while my other sister and my niece can make some repairs and paint ect, getting some decent furniture. So when my mom goes back home things will be all pretty.

My destructive nephew managed to get arrested so a little jail time might clean him up and he has been kicked out and not allowed back at my moms.

My Lill Fairy,

You are amazing and strong as your wings and heart of gold.

But as my whitebuckerfly said please take care of your self and the rest will follow.

I hope your nephew finds the help he needs and if not I am sure he is on the way to aw over there of * Three Strikes Your Out*

Hugs from Canada my friend

Randy

Thanks Cap!!!

I am very careful about how much I get involved. But getting him out of the house jump started a change at my moms. Rest assured I am taking care of myself I refuse to let this affect my own health both physically or mentally.

This isn't the 3 strikes for him its more like 20. I'm just hoping no one bails him out he needs to be taught a lesson as well as detoxing from those awful drugs. As far as his mom is concerned he isn't going to be allowed back in the house period.

So no worries about me this is actually a relief that all this happened for both my mom and my sister who has health problems. 

Good for you .

You are doing the right thing in putting what is important ,,, you your Mom and sister #1 priority .

I would look into a restrain g order against him  seeing you do not have the three strikes your out law there.

I have dealt with a lot of some of your same problem and drugs are a nasty nasty thing to deal with I hope for you and his sake he gets the help he needs it is not easy and some you just can not help.

Be strong my friend and keep me updated please.

Randy

Well things have quieted down and said offender is in jail due to getting caught with warrants so he isnt getting out anytime soon. 

We are repairing Moms house and giving her room a fresh coat of paint that is bright and happy like.

She is still at home with me while this is going so Im spoiling her as usual. My sister is actively and happily working to get her room set up with new matching bed covers and curtains so she will be overjoyed and my sister will have a sense of accomplishment and it will do a world of good for the activity and less depressing room. Some people are donating some new furniture so hopefully the living room will see a change to. I will be just as surprised so can't wait to see their efforts.

My severe lag is back took about an hour to get and sent gifts. If it keeps up I will have to take my list back down again.

Dhyani has been trying to help me figure it out but so far no success. It was fine for a couple of days and is back again.

I had a tough day yesterday due to a Dr trying to extort money out of me that I didnt owe. But got that sorta and have a new Dr now that I am seeing on Tues of next week. She has been reported to the insurance company. I never liked her anyway. 

Other than that life is peachy once again. Back to normal.Mom is sorted her house is getting a make over though it will be slow going. She spent another week with me which she loves it here because I spoil her rotten LOL