Same here with the lag and sometimes it crashes. I'm more worried about the situation you guys are in than getting a gift back.  Maybe I just watch too many crime shows, but them situations seem to escalate and that's worrisome. So until you all get things sorted out, don't worry about gifting back.  Y'all just stay safe.

Mine is not off and on its constant. 

But things have calmed down and nephew managed to get arrested on warrants. 

You are really have a sh...y time! I am so sorry.

Di I am tough as nails though. My mom is coming back with me to my house and my sister and niece are going to work on the house and fix things.

i know you are strong but you have reallybe dealt a tough hand!

My lag is constant but not the crashing. I also have to open my mail 2 or 3 times before I see gifts. There is something definitely wrong with the game. 

I'm glad things have calmed down too.  I think a long hot bath and something to drink might be in order though. 

Tiny, I know you're one strong cookie, but even tough cookies break.  Take care of yourself too.  Someone once gave me this saying and I've kept it close to me ever since:

You never know how strong you are...until being strong is the only choice you have.

I truly hope  your load grows lighter over time.

Im actually going very well personally. I have a nice place to live, my daughter is with me and I healthy.

Its my mom and sister that have had it rough. But things are getting sorted have cleaned her house but I brought my mom back here while my other sister and my niece can make some repairs and paint ect, getting some decent furniture. So when my mom goes back home things will be all pretty.

My destructive nephew managed to get arrested so a little jail time might clean him up and he has been kicked out and not allowed back at my moms.

My Lill Fairy,

You are amazing and strong as your wings and heart of gold.

But as my whitebuckerfly said please take care of your self and the rest will follow.

I hope your nephew finds the help he needs and if not I am sure he is on the way to aw over there of * Three Strikes Your Out*

Hugs from Canada my friend

Randy

Thanks Cap!!!

I am very careful about how much I get involved. But getting him out of the house jump started a change at my moms. Rest assured I am taking care of myself I refuse to let this affect my own health both physically or mentally.

This isn't the 3 strikes for him its more like 20. I'm just hoping no one bails him out he needs to be taught a lesson as well as detoxing from those awful drugs. As far as his mom is concerned he isn't going to be allowed back in the house period.

So no worries about me this is actually a relief that all this happened for both my mom and my sister who has health problems.