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Started 8/2/19 by Dhyani (Dhyaniland); 3081 views.
Darlene2436

From: Darlene2436

8/9/19

Hey how about ear plugs for you, when his talking you could just keep nodding your head like you agree with him. maybe he will get confused and shut up....  

LvlSlgr

From: LvlSlgr

8/9/19

Darlene2436 said:

just keep nodding your head like you agree with him.

My mother is 95 and this is what I finally decided I had to do with her. That way I can avoid a lot of arguments with her. I won't go into how demanding, domineering, etc. she is ... because there's really no point. Fortunately, I don't live with her. She lives alone because that's the way she wants it ... but then complains that no one comes to visit. Believe me you don't want to visit someone like her. When she first moved back to KY from FL (6 years ago) I went at least twice a week even though I live 30 miles away. Now I visit every other week ... when I take her groceries to her.

Dhyani (Dhyaniland)

From: Dhyani (Dhyaniland)

8/10/19

I sure hope, when I lose the few brain cells I have left, that I don't turn into my Father.  

We had a relatively pleasant day today ~ I actually got Dad to go for TWO 10 minute walks.  And he hugged me several times, said I LOVE YOU, SWEETHEART, and THANKED me several times. Who is this man, and where did Dad go?

We will see what tomorrow brings . . .

Darlene, I feel for ya.  I must be a glutton for punishment.

XXOO ~ Dhyaniboom

katiek2

From: katiek2

8/10/19

Ooh, I forgot about the harp music - GAG!!

Theo (TheoMC)

From: Theo (TheoMC)

8/10/19

Wow!!!! Miracles do happen after all!!! Fingers crossed for tomorrow!!! winkkissing_heart

LvlSlgr

From: LvlSlgr

8/10/19

Dhyani (Dhyaniland) said:

I sure hope, when I lose the few brain cells I have left, that I don't turn into my Father.

I understand this completely. My sister and I are definitely afraid we're both going to end up just like Mom. I keep telling my kids, "Don't let me get like her." By this I mean - tell me if I start to get mean and put a stop to it.

Dhyani (Dhyaniland)

From: Dhyani (Dhyaniland)

8/12/19

There should have been a pamphlet for us Boomers waaay back in Grade School entitled "Here's What You Can Look Forward To . . .  Brace Yourself"

*sigh*

On the upside, and dare I commit this to words? ~ Dad has been a completely different person for the past THREE days.  Compliant, loving, complimentary, compassionate, funny, etc. I LIKE this version of him!!!

Hope this sticks!

XXOO ~ Dhyaniboom

Theo (TheoMC)

From: Theo (TheoMC)

8/13/19

That is soooooo cool!!! Are you sure he didn't fall down the hill again and hit his head?? Keeping my fingers crossed!!!!

Suenamie5

From: Suenamie5

8/16/19

You are an amazing person Dhyani.  I was a caregiver for 7 years to my ex who wore diapers and I know it's a rough job.  Your Dad sounds awfully challenging though!!  I'm glad there are times when he realizes how blessed he is to have you???.

I have an anxiety disorder too.  I also have many other health issues so I know it takes a lot to care for others when you have rough days of your own.  Sounds like you have a very full plate in life!!  

I have mad respect for you girl!!

Your friend, 

Sue

Dhyani (Dhyaniland)

From: Dhyani (Dhyaniland)

8/16/19

To my UTTER amazement & delight, Dad is STILL being the best version of himself.   It's been a week, I think.  Time is a blurrrrrrrrrrr.

He's forgetting more, but is more accepting of it . . . and making jokes about HIMSELF!  He lost his partial denture but didn't tell me for a couple of days, so I sifted through several bags of garbage. Nope.  I've turned the whole house upside down looking for it.  Then today HE FOUND IT IN HIS SHOE!  

But we laughed, I sterilized it and I didn't even call him a jackass.

Am I dreaming?  Don't pinch me ~ I don't want to wake up :)

XXOO ~ Dhyaniboom

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