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~~Welcome to The Blue Room~~
~~ALL ABOUT US~~
The Blue Room provides support, friendship and healing tools for dealing with depression and anxiety. We are non professionals here to help each other. We are a fully moderated forum. We have some folders open to the public. Other folders are available to members only. Our Positives and Venting and Triggering are open as soon as you become a member. When you show you are ready you may have the Healing and Spiritual Healing upon request. Survivors Sanctuary and DID folders are very private folders and will only be given access to those who they apply to. We also have several Chat Rooms. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE A MEMBER TO PARTICIPATE IN OUR MAIN CHAT ROOM CHAT! THAT IS THE BLUE ROOM!
What is Happening in the Blue Room?
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The main chat room is periodically open and we have two scheduled chats. Band of Brothers (men only) Thursdays 4pm to 6pm Eastern and SS chat (women only) Wednesdays 10-11pm Eastern.
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We also have a New Folder that is open to the public. It is called " Promoted Discussions" This folder will have discussions promoted on Delphi. We want to open this folder up to more to the public to encourage more participation, So there will be special moderation rules for this folder. These rules will apply to this folder only.
1. Non members of the Blue Room will be moderated.
2. After multiple posts with out a post being denied your moderation will be lifted. You must follow our posting rules (see below).
3. Posts that do not follow the rules can be edited or moved to a private folder by staff.
4. Have fun!
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All Blue Room news will be posted here on our start page.
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We now have a new start page! Please read!
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CHAT SCEDULE
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The main chat room and "Breaking Through The Blues" are open periodically
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Survivors Sanctuary (women only): Wednesday 10pm to 11pm Eastern
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Band of Brothers (men only): Thursday 4pm to 6pm Eastern
~~THE BLUE ROOM’S STAFF~~
Your Host: UK_Aspie / John (Wizard)
Your Co-host:
Your Assistant Managers: Glowbugz1/ Tammie
Ratpacmomof3/Christine, Moonrise5
Chat-Mod Training and Support: Glowbugz1/Tammie
Your Chat room Moderators:
KatieJoe, Ratpacmomof3/Christine,
Debb, “M”/ Merryns, Stormchild1, mice_elf, Smileygirl, UK_Aspie/John, Boomer, LGene, Rosey58, Carryonall, deaflegacyca
~~~HOW TO JOIN US~~~
Non-members are welcome to post in the public folders. All new members will be moderated until you have posted a few times. Access to the private folders will be given on request.
~~ALL CHAT ROOM RULES~~
1. The main chat room, The Blue Room supports healing and encourages chat about fun, life healing activities and humor. We will not heal if all chat is focuses on problems. We have other rooms and chat times for this. We also offer private chats if you have a pressing issue that you need to talk about or you may post your concern on our message boards. Please let a chat-mod know if you need special assistance.
2. If you are a first time visitor you may be asked to leave the chat room and read the chat rules. We try to make our chat rooms safe for everyone, even new visitors. All new chatters must understand our chat rules in their entirety.
3. Treat everyone with respect. We allow no lurking, profanity, religious proselytizing, personal attacks or severely triggering words.
4. All chatters must be sober and not under the influence of any substance.
5. If you feel you need to talk one on one with a Chat-mod you may whisper, PM this person or publicly request your wish. We have private chat rooms where you can talk at length.
6. If you feel unsafe while in the chat room you may whisper to a chat mod about it. If you need to just "hang out" to feel safe you may do so with the chat mod's permission.
7. We do not allow members or visitors to flame other forums. Chatters are here to support and help each other with healing issues.
8. If you have an issue with another person, please keep it away from this chat room and contact this person by email or IM.
9. If you need to talk about a triggering issue or need support you may ask if a chat-mod can open Breaking Through the Blues or go into a private chat with you.
10. Please announce to the room when you are about to leave the chat room. Please wait 20 seconds after you announce this. Waiting 20 seconds gives everyone a chance to respond. You will see that we care because you will receive responses such as "tc," "see you later," (((((hugs)))), etc. A quick exit causes some members to be concerned or worried about you.
11. All members and also new visitors must be at least 18 years of age to enter the main chat room.
12. You do not need to use spoilers in the main chat room but strong graphical language is not allowed. Spoilers must be used in the other intense chat rooms.
Please check in periodically. Mods open the room whenever they are online.
~~POSTING GUIDELINES~~
1. Please do not delete any of your posts. You may edit them to say you are removing your message or to make spelling or other changes. Thank you for helping to keep our boards readable by doing this.
2. No spamming, solicitations, or personal promotions are allowed.
3. No gossiping about other forums or Delphi members is allowed. If you have an issue with a person please take it to another venue.
4. Treat members with respectful courtesy at all times. Absolutely no flaming is allowed.
5. Use a Trigger Warning when posting about issues or use words that could trigger fragile readers, or post in the "Venting& Triggering folder or your Healing Journal.
6. Please do not use sexually explicit pictures in either your Delphi Profile or Signatures.
7. Please do not include sexually explicit or violent language in your profile. You must not go into graphic details about your SI or other issues.
8. Please no religious proselytizing. The only exception is in the Spiritual Healing thread.
9. If you have a criticism about any BR policy please email the host and do not post about it.
We have private folders that are available to members only.
>~~ FEELING SUICIDAL? ~~
Update: Suicide chat!
If you want to commit suicide we can’t stop you. This is not a suicide prevention forum.
No one is allowed to post any message or poems that threaten suicide. You will be locked out if you do.
If members report that you IM or email them and threaten suicide you will be locked out of BR.
If you feel suicidal go to the nearest of ER, or contact the hot line nearest you.
If you feel you need to post something about suicide you must use the "Triggering" folder and put a clear warning on it.
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
1-800-273-TALK (8255)
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/default.aspx
National Hopeline Network
1-800-442-HOPE (4673)
http://www.hopeline.com/defaultSAVE.asp
The Samaritans -
In the UK dial 08457 90 90 90.
In the Republic of Ireland dial 1850 60 90 90 |
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