I saw this today and decided to update all of you - we stopped the court case for grandparent visitation rights because our son-in-law was dragging the kids through the mud to keep them from us, and we didn't want that happening to them. Plus, we don't have money to throw at a huge court battle. So we gave up.
It's almost done me in, that's for certain, but with God's help I am lifted up again and trying to go on as normal. Losing our daughter was hard, losing her 3 children as well is just about insurmountable.
We know that one day we will see them again, and be able to renew our relationship. That it may not happen until after we have died and gone on is okay with us, because we know that it will. As for their father, well, I pray for God's will in his life every day.
Thanks for your care, everyone. Never did I know how life could go from good to bad in such a short time, and yet - God shows us amazing blessings every day! Really amazing, and non-stop. Definitely lifts us up. :)
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