Dave,
My personal belief is that formal training will increase the speed with which the basic skills needed, will be acquired. It doesn't have to be MSF..... a structured presentation with reviews, demonstrations, drills and evaluation can be one on one, or class room based, hands on... whatever. As many people as there are, with as many different ways that they learn, one program does not fit all.
I can't figure out any way to evaluate how many go the route of formal v. taught by peers/family....it's not like there's a stamp on your liscense that says it.
Then you get to the point where you have to question which is really the case; as soon as you define it one way or the other, the bragging rights are established, and people start altering their answers to meet their perception of 'cool'. (I saw a lot of this when I was on recruiting duty with the USN.... we'd occasionally take the applicants to see a Navy ship and give them a tour of it...... I'd ask the sailors 'how many of you walked into the recruiting office on your own, without any contact with a recruiter?' every time I asked, nearly 100% of the sailors would hold up their hands. :) Yeah, right!