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Did your parents ever spank you when ...   The Curious You: Beliefs and Ideas

Started Sep-3 by WALTER784; 886 views.
WALTER784
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Poll Question From WALTER784

Sep-3

Did your parents ever spank you when you were a child?
  • Yes15  votes
    88%
  • No2  votes
    11%
  • Other (Please explain)0  votes
    0%
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EdGlaze

From: EdGlaze 

Sep-3

Over 65 — parents spanked, though not often, and school did a couple of times. I learned to behave.

Showtalk
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From: Showtalk 

Sep-3

A few times but it never did any good. They found taking things away worked much better.  I never hit my children. I don’t hit my dogs either.

WALTER784
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From: WALTER784 

Sep-3

I notice you used the word "hit" instead of "spank".

My father spanked me on several occasions, but he never hit me.

I refer to spanking as with an open palm where as hitting is with a closed fist. Another thing, both my dad and I only spanked on the buttocks or the upper part of the back of the legs below the buttocks... nowhere else. 

Last time my father spanked me, I was 10 or 11 years old. 

I spanked our older 2 boys a few times, but not after age 8. I never had to spank my youngest son though. He minded quite well.

As for dogs... hmmm... I never thought about that but I would never hit or spank a dog either. However I did train our dog by using my pointer finger extended and tapping it lightly on the top of our dog's nose. She didn't like that, but it worked.

FWIW

  • Edited September 3, 2023 8:16 pm  by  WALTER784
Showtalk
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From: Showtalk 

Sep-3

It’s the same thing but on a different body part. It doesn’t really matter, it’s still hitting and hitting on the buttocks is demeaning.

Risa (Risa25)

From: Risa (Risa25) 

Sep-6

They didn't just "spank" as in a swat on the bottom. I was hit hard, open handedly, enough to send me flying across the room. Not sure if that's the definition of spanking. I was hit until I reached 13  years old. I would NEVER hit, or spank, a child.

Risa (Risa25)

From: Risa (Risa25) 

Sep-6

I agree (that hitting the butt is demeaning). Also, it was done in anger, and that teaches a child that hitting and losing one's temper is acceptable. It's also not ok to grip an arm hard enough to leave bruises, pull long hair, or to pinch. I believe in time out (with a kitchen timer for small children) or removal of privileges. Discipline does not have to mean causing physical pain and terrifying a child.

Showtalk
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From: Showtalk 

Sep-6

I agree. Hands on a child in anger or to cause pain of any kind, is abuse.

Risa (Risa25)

From: Risa (Risa25) 

Sep-6

I agree that it is abuse also. There is no excuse for striking a child or causing physical pain.

Showtalk
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From: Showtalk 

Sep-6

No, then they learn to hit.

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