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MoreSep-3
Sep-3
Over 65 — parents spanked, though not often, and school did a couple of times. I learned to behave.
Sep-3
A few times but it never did any good. They found taking things away worked much better. I never hit my children. I don’t hit my dogs either.
Sep-3
I notice you used the word "hit" instead of "spank".
My father spanked me on several occasions, but he never hit me.
I refer to spanking as with an open palm where as hitting is with a closed fist. Another thing, both my dad and I only spanked on the buttocks or the upper part of the back of the legs below the buttocks... nowhere else.
Last time my father spanked me, I was 10 or 11 years old.
I spanked our older 2 boys a few times, but not after age 8. I never had to spank my youngest son though. He minded quite well.
As for dogs... hmmm... I never thought about that but I would never hit or spank a dog either. However I did train our dog by using my pointer finger extended and tapping it lightly on the top of our dog's nose. She didn't like that, but it worked.
FWIW
Sep-3
It’s the same thing but on a different body part. It doesn’t really matter, it’s still hitting and hitting on the buttocks is demeaning.
Sep-6
They didn't just "spank" as in a swat on the bottom. I was hit hard, open handedly, enough to send me flying across the room. Not sure if that's the definition of spanking. I was hit until I reached 13 years old. I would NEVER hit, or spank, a child.
Sep-6
I agree (that hitting the butt is demeaning). Also, it was done in anger, and that teaches a child that hitting and losing one's temper is acceptable. It's also not ok to grip an arm hard enough to leave bruises, pull long hair, or to pinch. I believe in time out (with a kitchen timer for small children) or removal of privileges. Discipline does not have to mean causing physical pain and terrifying a child.
Sep-6
I agree. Hands on a child in anger or to cause pain of any kind, is abuse.
Sep-6
I agree that it is abuse also. There is no excuse for striking a child or causing physical pain.