I understand... sounds like where I was when I finally met DH... actually I was heading for an all out "all men suck" mentality and ironically enough, he was heading for an all out "all women suck" phase as well... we collided though, online of all places and though we weren't looking or seeking each other (I think that's key.. but it's hard NOT to.. ya know?) and fell in love and all is now history... course he brought along the most baggage I've ever had to deal with in my life BUT he was and is worth it. LOL... let's just say, I wouldn't have done and put up with what I have over the years (e.g ex wife from hell, his kids we barely get to see for visits that aren't allowed to our hosue, many many days in court, walking the streets of CT trying to keep him from going to jail, et al) for just anyone, nor would I have done what I've done through the years if I didn't think from day one that it wasn't going to work... and my realization that it was going to BE work as well. BUT 3 years later, we're still going strong, things HAVE cooled off our heels a bit AND we're stronger for it (as individuals AND as a couple)... so... my advice?
Keep lovin' yourself
Be patient (the hardest part I know!)
Don't seek, let love find you (2nd hardest part)
Be open to many possibilities (but don't seek 3rd hardest part..LOL)
And..... don't settle... as already suggested. Remember, finding someone who loves you for who and what you are is much preferable over finding someone who loves you for who and what you could be, or can change into.