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Just why?   The Jovial You: Humor, Jokes and Riddles

Started 5/27/21 by WALTER784; 908 views.
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From: Showtalk

Jun-13

It’s about getting rid of  things you will never use again. 

WALTER784

From: WALTER784

Jun-13

Showtalk said...

It’s about getting rid of  things you will never use again. 

My wife and I do that at the end of every year... we call it the "Big Cleaning"!

We open up all the closets, take everything out, go through what we want to keep and what we don't need any more.

Once we find the "don't need anymore things", we bring them to the local school's bargain shopper's day to see if others will just give a few pennies for things we don't need. Anything that isn't sold there is donated to places that collect goods for homeless people.

FWIW

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From: Showtalk

Jun-13

It’s a good idea. Otherwise when someone retires and downsizes its overwhelming for them or for their children.

WALTER784

From: WALTER784

Jun-13

Well, we own our own home (mortgage paid off 7 years ago) and don't plan on downsizing.

And I just retired this past March. So I plan on staying where I am.

My father just turned 91 last month and also lives in his own home. He too has gotten rid of lots of things he doesn't need over the past 20 years too.

FWIW

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From: Showtalk

Jun-13

I know older people who could not keep up a home after a while.  They all ended up in nursing homes or some kind of assisted living

WALTER784

From: WALTER784

Jun-13

My grandmother lived the last 20 years of her life alone in her own home until the age of 95. Grandfather passed away at 75.

My dad just turned 91 and he's been living alone in his house now for the last 8 years since my mom died.

My mother in law lived alone in her house for the last 4 years after she lost her husband and passed away at 86 years of age.

My Aunt is 84 and she's been living alone in her house now for the last 4 years since her husband died.

I guess it depends on how healthy you are.

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From: Showtalk

Jun-14

It depends on a lot of things.  If they can still drive, shop and cook. If they can keep up maintenance on the home.  If they haven’t lost any memory or cognitive function.  Location is also important.  How far are they from doctors? Can they still exercise?  Are there friends or family around or are they isolated?

WALTER784

From: WALTER784

Jun-15

Showtalk said...

It depends on a lot of things.  If they can still drive, shop and cook. If they can keep up maintenance on the home.  If they haven’t lost any memory or cognitive function.

Grandmother drove until age 92 then my father took her to where she need to go and buy what she needed until she was 95 and she still cooked for herself... she fell, broke her hip and had to be admitted to a nursing home where she died a year later. Father is now 91 and still driving and shops for his own foods, cooks himself and is quite active. Aunt is 84, but cannot drive however her son and his wife take her where she needs to go. She can cook for herself though.

Showtalk said...

Location is also important.  How far are they from doctors? Can they still exercise?  Are there friends or family around or are they isolated?

Everybody lives in a city of about 50,000 and doctor's office is only 5 ~ 7 miles away. Grandmother and father both walk daily and relatives are all around. My younger brother is only 15 minutes away from my father by car and my grandmother lived only 2 miles away. My Aunt is about 7 miles away from my father and he still visits her about once a month.

FWIW

  • Edited June 15, 2021 6:36 am  by  WALTER784
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From: Showtalk

Jun-15

They may not have realized it but they planned for old age in advance by living near family and I’m good locations.  I knew a woman whose children all lived out of town.  Her husband was younger than she was but he died and she was alone in a two story house that was not close to stores or doctors.  She lived to be 98, but the last few years had to move in with one daughter.

WALTER784

From: WALTER784

Jun-15

Showtalk said...

They may not have realized it but they planned for old age in advance by living near family and I’m good locations.  I knew a woman whose children all lived out of town.  Her husband was younger than she was but he died and she was alone in a two story house that was not close to stores or doctors.  She lived to be 98, but the last few years had to move in with one daughter.

This is yet one more difference and unique property of Japan and that is their collective society mentality... if you can call it that. Direct translation translates it as "welfare", but it's not anything similar what so ever to the US "welfare" society.

Here in Japan, when people loose loved ones and live at home alone, near by neighbors work with the local city hall to check up on them at least once a day depending on their needs. If those living alone are disabled, checking up is done several times a day, but it's not a city implemented system, it's just a city coordinated system with the local area Presidents, sub section managers, etc. (i.e. Everybody looks out for each other.) And this eliminates the those living along with no nearby relatives or no siblings, etc. dying alone in their own house and not being discovered until the smell radiates to the neighbors.

Japan has quite a lot of elderly and the people in each area take care of themselves. If one gets to the point where they cannot seem to function properly living alone, it's immediately made know to city hall and only then do they step in to assist in getting the person out of the home where they're unable to live by themselves and into an elderly folks home so that someone can monitor and care for them properly.

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