About Smoking Cessation Forum

Hosted by Terry (abquitsmking)

Formerly known as the About.com Smoking Cessation support forum, this community is open to all who are recovering from nicotine addiction.

  • 5130
    MEMBERS
  • 274455
    MESSAGES
  • 8
    POSTS TODAY

Discussions

January 2021 Ex-Smokers   Quit Buddies Unite

Started 12/31/19 by ModDee; 33829 views.
Nope62

From: Nope62

Feb-12

Welcome! You are in the right place!

I am 64 years old and I have smoked since around the age of 14. So we are very similar in that respect.

I get a sense of depression or low self esteem from reading your post.

You are not any bigger a loser than the rest of us. I've been trying to quit for 10 years on and off.

I don't understand what type of surgery you are having from your post. It is good that they caught your lung cancer in the early stage. This should be your primary motivation for quitting this nasty habit!

I would suggest that you go to u tube and look for video's made by a man named Joel Spitzer. Watch and listen to as many of them as you can. Knowledge is power when it comes to quitting smoking. You have to know your enemy (Nicotine)!

Make a quit plan!

Make a list of the reason's you are quitting and keep that list where you can access it at anytime you need to remind your self why you are quitting. 

amdrewster14 gave you some really good advice! I agree totally about the one day at a time. Some days it will be one minute or one hour at a time. Get in there and fight for your life. Cheer up and try to find the positives in your life. We will be here for advice and support!

  Good Luck!

abrewster14

From: abrewster14

Feb-12

I hope you are sticking in there. I thought of one thing that really helped me in the hardest first few days. (Mind you I’m working from home and stuck in my apartment or little box as I call it). You can’t smoke what you don’t have I threw out every smoke related thing I had ashtrays smokes vapes. You can scream and cry and jump up and down but if you don’t have them you can’t smoke them. Remember it’s an addiction. A heroine addict can’t have heroin around and an alcoholic early in quit can’t be around alcohol. The nicotine actually leaves your body from the second you put out that last cig and completely in three days. It’s the mental addiction more than anything. 
There is no magic pill nor do you need one. I’ve been to the mad Russian (he gave me my money back), hypnotists, taken anti depressants, patch, chantix ( never been more nauseated in my life). The thing is you just don’t smoke. That’s the secret. Honestly when I was smoking going more than 2 hours was a challenge. But it’s been six weeks. (Never made it this far in a quit). I take it each day. Everyday makes your quit stronger. Be kind to yourself and ask for understanding.  

Moskus999

From: Moskus999

Feb-12

Okay Great!!! Thank you for the encouragement. Makes me so Happy.  Joe and I went to get tested for COVID Praise God we tested Negative. HOWEVER this Beautiful Asian Doctor Lady wanted to take a picture of my Lungs, Joe and I were Coughing and sneezing a lot, we realized we were allergic to the New Potpourri we purchased. The Doctor at the walk in Center wanted to take an XRAY of Lungs. She handed me a script and asked me to go to the Hospital and get a CT SCAN of my lungs, and there it was on the Upper Part of my Lung I was diagnosed with early stage lung cancer. I of course  have had many tests after that.  This Surgery Is Called Robotic Surgery. They say it is Minimally Invasive Surgery. They are called the Thoracic surgeons. I also ordered the Book Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking. So Thank You Very Kind People. As far as Depression, yes that is correct a work in Process. A Suicide my husband and I experienced together really brought me to my knees.  Getting back to why I am hear is because I have no Symptoms of Lung Cancer, so I guess my work is not complete here on earth. If we never got tested for COVID I would never know I was walking around with Cancer. So I am Blessed. We all have our own stuff, COVID, people loosing their jobs, so please forgive if I shared too much. I am trying to use this Forum I guess like an AA meeting, one day, one minute at a time. I am using a Journal, I will go back to the Patch, the gum. I am going to make this easy. Tomorrow is another Day. I wish you all the Best In This Smoking Forum. Pretty Soon I will be saying NOPE I don't smoke. Speak with you soon. Malaya Thank You So Much. I know I will not find you again on this website.

abrewster14

From: abrewster14

Feb-12

Hey hon just checking in. You hanging in there ? 

allalyssa

From: allalyssa

Feb-12

I too have smoked for 30 years. I’ve quit before but I always end up smoking again. I’m hoping this time it works. I’m on day 4 and I have to say I’m not having a great time. I am taking Wellbutrin - and I thought or hoped it would help more. So far I feel awful - not sleeping and the mood swings are a real treat! I keep telling myself I don’t really love to smoke - I’m just an addict. 

Nope62

From: Nope62

Feb-12

 I am sorry to hear about your situation! I hope that your surgery is completely successful.

I am about six weeks quit now. I have good days and bad days.

 When are you going to start your quit, or have you done so already?

 Mindset is everything when quitting smoking. I have also dealt with depression for most of my life. Quitting smoking will help with your depression. Nicotine only feeds it!

Please give this some thought because I think this helped me.  Are you going to quit smoking or are you going to stop smoking!  In my past quits I only stopped smoking for various lengths of time. This time I plan to quit smoking, as in forever!  When you think about it for awhile you will understand what the difference is. It's important that you get into a quitters mindset to be successful. Think Positive about what you are doing for your own health!

I Wish You All the Luck!!

Nope62

From: Nope62

Feb-13

Day 4 Is great! Congratulations on your deciding to quit!

We are all addicts or we would have no need to be here. You are not alone in this!

You should notice that everyday from now on gets a little easier. Your not supposed to be having a good time right now, but with some positive thinking you can make it a little better situation. "I keep telling myself I don’t really love to smoke" Sounds like you might be romancing the cigarette some there.

You can google (romancing the cigarette) to get some idea of what I'm talking about. There is absolutely nothing about a cigarette to love. It is a slow form of suicide. It will take your money and leave your health in shambles. Eventually causing you to live a shorter life than you would have without it. 

To make this quit happen, you need to get a serious hate going on for that cigarette.

Good Luck To You!

gkim

From: gkim

Feb-13

Hi Moskus! Yes it’s a blessing you found the cancer at an early state. From what I’ve read, it has a very good prognosis. 
I’m a believer that nothing that happens in life is a coincidence. I quit smoking when I got Covid. There’s a a purpose to the madness, it seems. Hang in there. I’m sure you know but really, it does get easier. I loved smoking but now I’m over three months smoke free and I constantly tell myself “I don’t do that anymore!” Welcome and stay close to this forum. Amazing people here. 

abrewster14

From: abrewster14

Feb-13

Just fight every minute every hour you can win 

overdoze

From: overdoze

Feb-13

How you all doing out there? I ran out of patches a few days back, so just winging it. 

Hope everyone is having a nice weekend. 

Overdoz quit January 4th, 2021

TOP