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First 10 days review   General Chit-Chat

Started 5/6/20 by Musivore; 104124 views.
Musivore

From: Musivore

5/7/20

And I like this picture you posted. Reminds me, I used to want to light up anytime I saw a picture of anyone smoking. Or on tv. I think I'm over that now?

JerseyDee

From: JerseyDee

5/7/20

Lori - I am not following the meaning of this pic .. An attractive person smoking ... Makes smoking look attractive.  

... Makes one actually want to smoke, not quit.

What am I missing here?

Loreficent

From: Loreficent

5/7/20

I take it as she is referring to the smoking as “the mistake”, saying don’t make the same mistakes I do. 

JerseyDee

From: JerseyDee

5/7/20

Get it now. Attractive person doing something so unnatractive ... Smoking.  

Like what's wrong with this pic? .. The mistake... The mistake is that stinky cigarette in her hand ...

Would have been viewed so differently 70 yrs ago when smoking was cool and everyone did it!

JerseyDee

From: JerseyDee

5/7/20

Speaking to that photo ... I just saw out my window an attractive looking young woman step out of her car with mask lowered around her neck and smoking a cigarerette ... 

I thought this lookrd foolish.  It did scream out to people .. People don't make the same mustake ...

So glad I am not a slave during this time!

Loreficent

From: Loreficent

5/8/20

Ugh. It seems a bit contradictory doesn’t it? Like I’m worried about this invisible Coronavirus thing out there that might harm me but I’m not at all worried about the dozens of other odd chemicals I’m putting into my lungs. Mmmm. Being a nicotine addict is tough. As they say, “quitting isn’t for sissies!”

Im also glad to not be so compelled as to lower my mask for a smoke.

Loreficent

From: Loreficent

5/8/20

Oh, thank you Musivore. I’m definitely no Saint, but feel compassion and empathy are vital human qualities. So is what I call intestinal fortitude.
I strive for balance, and find myself continually challenged by my human condition, and often by my fellow humans. It is hard at times to find the right balance and there are times we all lack insight into what someone needs at a given moment, yes? But I do believe most people don’t often speak and act with intended malice with each other. Generally.

Yes. Populism. Hmmm. I could also likely ramble on in another thread with my thoughts on the state of things, in another forum. I’ll admit, for the last couple of years I’ve purposely avoided those conversations. Mainly to keep my blood pressure down and my tummy from hurting. We can leave it at I am not happy at all with the divisive nature of our once great nation. I retain hope that the pendulum usually swings back again. Eventually. 
I hope you got through your day well and with little more than a fluttering by kind of crave that receded quickly with a flick of your hand!

Musivore

From: Musivore

5/8/20

What you describe Jersey with the girl smoking reminds me of one of the biggest hits from a band I like, the Editors. If you like emotional indie, like your American bands, Interpol and The National, check these guys out also. Anyways, the song has the chorus:

The saddest thing, that I've ever seen, was smokers outside, the hospital doors.

How are things in NJ by the way? I know it's badly hit, but are you past the peak?

Musivore

From: Musivore

5/8/20

Morning Lori blush

Intestinal Fortitude eh? I like the term. And I like that you strive for that balance. I do too, but only on my better days. Mostly though, i feel nothing, because I know from experience that feeling the pain of everyone will bring you down; so then you yourself will need the help that others are more deserving of... And, yes, I agree, there is intrinsic good in the majority. Even if there wasn't, it is better to live your like believing that, otherwise you will end up cocooned, dimmed, less alive, and less able to change things a little.

Yes Lori, I also get what you are saying about avoiding certain subjects. I do too when I am most upset with the tide the world and my country specifically is taking. Sometimes this avoidance can last months. Plus I am currently trying my best not to get worked up during this quit period. But does that quit period ever end I wonder? Anyways, I suspect there won't be much disagreement between us if we ever did go there - just a small mountain of consensus, built up slowly by us both from different angles.

Musivore

From: Musivore

5/8/20

And have a good, strong day also. Not sure I'm ready to join the pledge, as I am still exploring my feelings about smoking. But I wish you well with your pledge, and I do think I will still be standing with you at the end of the day.

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