Marinara, but both.

Al dente or ben cotta

 Ben who? Depends….is he cute?? 

Al dente…but that also makes me think of Al Bundy from married with children

Extra parmesan or no

I'm a cheese guy so extra.  Ben sounds like he'd be cute.

Garlic toast or not

Yes, garlic toast

Linguini or Fettuccine 

Fettuccine

Pesto or marinara

Pesto

would you eat shrimp with a pesto sauce or no

I never have, but I'd say yes.

Crab or lobster

Crab

Port after dinner, yes or no

No. Generally only drink wine with dinner.

Facebook or Twitter

I don’t have either, but for the sake of the game I will say Facebook…

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