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March 2021 New Ex-Smokers - Start Here   Quit Buddies Unite

Started Feb-28 by Terry (abquitsmking); 32669 views.
Jatchat

From: Jatchat

Mar-15

Go Suzy Go, you rock girl! Congratulations on one week

Suzy2018

From: Suzy2018

Mar-15

Thank you, Missis Caz - I'm astounded to be here, but here I seem to be, and I'm not knocking it - just surprised.   I couldn't  have picked a worse week to quit smoking if I'd tried - pretty much everything that could have gone wrong has gone wrong, and then a few little extra problems as well - but somehow I haven't picked up a cigarette. Who'd a thought it?

Thanks for the yelling - I can hear you, and I love it.

Suzy x

Suzy2018

From: Suzy2018

Mar-15

Thank you, Jeff!  Or would you prefer to be called Nope?  

I DO feel better, most of the time.  When I don't I feel a lot worse, but I know that's junky thinking, because there are NO pluses to smoking! relaxed  And yes, I'm breathing better, smelling better, not feeling embarrassed, feeling proud of myself.  It's all good, really.  I've had a hell of a week with family stuff, but I'm still standing, hugely because of you and everyone else on here.  Thank you for caring, and I hope you're having a good day too.

Suzy

Suzy2018

From: Suzy2018

Mar-15

Thank you!   Yes, it's been a sad and difficult week, and good to know that so many people care.   There is more good in the world than bad, I'm sure.

Lovely too to know that the Actor thing happens elsewhere.

Suzy

Anne2020

From: Anne2020

Mar-15

Have you found a replacement for the cigarettes to help with your chronic fatigue?   Fortunately, my fatigue has more to do with poor diet and not enough exercise.  What could you use in place of cigarettes? 

Suzy2018

From: Suzy2018

Mar-15

Thanks Anthony!  I do indeed rock :)

Mercy (mercy164)

From: Mercy (mercy164)

Mar-15

Thank you Anne for writing me back. It has been suggested that I meditate or nap. I am trying to get better at self care and have made some progress but still have a long way to go.  I also have the issue of being so tired I sometimes don't realize that I am.  I want to live so I need to work on this. How are you? What is your quit like?

oxanquits

From: oxanquits

Mar-15

Thank you for the beautiful words Lori, and for the tips pray Love the comparison with waves, it is relaxing and helpful way to think about dealing with feelings while quitting dolphin  being in the moment is hard sometimes, but important to practice.

  • Edited March 15, 2021 5:27 pm  by  oxanquits
oxanquits

From: oxanquits

Mar-15

Suzy2018 said:

I think without this forum I would have, and it's a bit of a mystery to me really. 

same for me. I come here when feel that I might smoke soon and so far it helped me a lot - didn't imagine it would make so much difference. Before I was thinking that I can do it myself, but it's easier and fun together punch

Anne2020

From: Anne2020

Mar-15

Mine was quite easy compared to most I have read on this forum.  I count myself very, very lucky.  It's been described to me as 'smoking left me'.  I didn't plan anything, I just woke up one day and didn't smoke.  Did it again and again and, after about a week, I figured, I would quit altogether.  So I have had the odd day or two where it was a bit of a challenge but nothing compared to most of the posts that I read on this forum.  I am very lucky.

I have to say that your mind is your greatest weapon.  If you can convince yourself that you actually like smoking, and most of us have, then you can convince yourself that you hate it too.   It's not long after a quite that you realize how foul they smell and how icky they taste.  How we ever get started on the things is a complete travesty. 

The movies and television glamorized smoking.  When I was young, I thought starting to smoke was a right of passage to adult hood.  You had to smoke or you were just not growing up or cool.  I now have such disdain for the advertising and promotion of just about anything.  Don't trust any of them.  They are out to make a buck and that is all that matters to them.  

Well, the jig is up.  More and more people are removing the veil and seeing smoking for what it is.  A gigantic con job set up to kill off the population, keep them poor, sick and dying while shareholders of tobacco corp rake in the cash year after year after year. 

Now is shareholders of pharma raking in the cash with all the sick and dying.   What a game plan eh.  

Don't be a louse and let those cigarettes take one more minute of your life time.  Find something else to keep you amused, to destress or to socialize with.  Something healthy.  Something that will contribute to your life - not suck the life out of you and your wallet.  

Smoking is a mugs game.  Don't get sucked in.

That's how I'm feeling today.  Rejoice - you have quit and now on the lookout for better things.  Well done.  

Cheers! 

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